Whoop

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/8voy92/what_is_one_thing_you_can_tell_reddit_but_not/

>being a guy that's not a chad sucks

fix'd

Also agreed. I split up with my most recent ex 2 years ago and while I enjoy going to bed on my own and not supporting someone else, I wish sometimes I had someone to cuddle and sleep (ACTUALLY SLEEP) with. Maybe not wake up next to, but, yeah.

I'm pretty burnt out on life and it's getting tiring replacing the mental armor around my mind and soul every day to make sure nothing gets to me. I even developed a mental thing where whenever something bothers me I visualize myself putting it into a box and putting it next to a wall that's filled with hundreds of other things that have made me sad or angry. I even had to do it on the fly today (I usually don't, usually it's just when I'm zoning out at home or work) because my boss flipped face and told me something that directly was the opposite of what he told me previously.

Idk, it helps but I should probably see a therapist, but I'm too scared because I'm one of those people who just repeats their problems to a person over and over for reassurance and I *really* have to distance myself from people to not be attached to them.