Can confirm, was raised by my mother for 10 years (0-10), went to live at my grandparents' house for 3, discovered my grandpa was the manliest dude ever, tried to follow in his footsteps, got moved out back with my mom at 14 and her pussy ass fucking new husband who did not teach me ANYTHING so now I feel like, at 24, almost 25, I missed a lot of "manly teachings" about life that I should have learned, but I didn't. That whole scene from that movie felt familiar (what I do with a bunch of dude customers at work) but at the same time made me cringe internally a bit.
I really wish I had been raised by my grandfather because my own dad is... not manly at all. He never taught me anything and was barely around us because he was the one working, and taking the brunt of the divorce and paying child support, barely seeing me and my siblings ever.
I really hope my generation is the last of that, but... it's all I can do is hope. I am an extremely wimpy guy and I wish I wasn't. I can't confront people IRL, I can't do jack shit. I wish I was half the man of some of the guys that come into my work are, shit.
I really hope that someday, the courts figure out that each gender (MALE/FEMALE, FUCKERS) child should be allocated time accordingly with each parent, a little more for their specific gender to each gender parent, if a divorce happens. But that'll never happen.
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